Unsolicited style advice from someone who thinks they know fashion

Fashion advice is everywhere, but let’s be real—not all of it should be taken seriously. So, here’s my completely unsolicited but undeniably correct list of fashion do’s and don’ts

I love fashion. I love talking about it, overanalysing it, and passionately defending my opinions as if they were universal truths. And while personal style is, well, personal, let’s be honest: some trends and styling choices are just… not it. I say this as someone who has personally made some tragic fashion mistakes (we do not talk about 2019), so consider this my attempt to save us all from repeating history.

With that in mind, here’s my completely unsolicited (but obviously correct) style advice. Think of me as your stylish but slightly judgmental younger sister (apologies to my actual older sisters who endure these rants in person), the one who tells you—lovingly but firmly—that your jeans don’t fit right and that, yes, you do need to steam that shirt before leaving the house.

Take it or leave it. But don’t say I didn’t help.

Let’s begin.

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1. Red and pink together? Proceed with caution

Some people call red and pink a power couple. I’d argue they’re more like that chaotic ex-situationship you keep running into; messy, unnecessary, and tricky to pull off without regret. Unless the colors are already mixed in the design, this pairing requires serious styling skills. If in doubt, maybe sit this one out.

Nevertheless, if anyone can show me a decent outfit with the two colours - I’d love to be proven wrong.

2. High-rise, low-rise: just wear what actually suits you

The return of low-rise jeans has sparked deep controversy, and honestly, I get it. But here’s the thing: trends are suggestions, not commandments. Not every waistline works for every body type, and that’s okay. The key is to wear what flatters you—and, for the love of good fashion, let’s stop ignoring mid-rise.

It exists. It’s perfect. Give it some love.

3. Basics are the secret to great style

A well-curated wardrobe isn’t about having more clothes (a painful truth I’m still coming to terms with); it’s about having the right ones. A crisp white blouse, classic denim, a structured black blazer, and a perfectly fitted T-shirt will serve you infinitely better than whatever micro-trend social media is screaming about this week.

Master the basics, and everything else will fall into place.

4. Invest in shoes, accessories, and handbags

You don’t need a designer wardrobe to look put-together, but the right accessories can elevate everything. A well-structured handbag, a good pair of everyday shoes, or a great belt can transform even the simplest outfit. And no, this doesn’t mean chasing logos. Just buy the best quality you can afford, and you’ll realise it actually saves you money in the long run. 

Your outfits (and future self) will thank you.

5. There’s a time and place for opaque and sheer tights

Tights are tricky. Opaque tights are a winter essential, but they can make an outfit feel heavier than intended. Sheer tights, on the other hand, add an effortless polish, only until they snag five minutes in.

The key?

Choose wisely and always have a backup pair.

6. If you’re questioning whether something needs ironing, it does

Wrinkles are the silent killer of otherwise great outfits. If you’re debating whether to iron or steam something, just do it. You’ll never regret looking polished, but you will regret looking like you just rolled out of a suitcase.

7. A silk scarf is the most underrated accessory you own

Wear it around your neck, tie it on your bag, use it as a headband, or even loop it through your belt loops; there are endless styling possibilities. A silk scarf instantly makes you look like someone who has their life together, even if you definitely do not.

8. The best outfits are usually the simplest

Some of the most iconic fashion moments are built on simplicity. A well-tailored coat, great denim, and a crisp white shirt will always look more put-together than an overcomplicated outfit that screams, “I tried way too hard.”

Less can be more.

9. Navy and black can work—if done right

It’s not the crime people think it is, but the shades need to be distinct enough that it looks intentional, not like you got dressed in the dark.

Deep navy and jet black? Chic.

Muted navy and faded black? Risky territory.

10. Your style should evolve, so have fun with it

The best thing about fashion is that it doesn’t have to be consistent. One day, you’re in a full monochrome moment. The next, you’re in cowboy boots, pretending you just walked off a Milan runway. The key to a great outfit? Confidence. You can wear the wildest ensemble, but if you own it, people will believe you.

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At the end of the day, wear what makes you feel good. Ignore trends that don’t serve you. Iron your damn clothes. And if all else fails, throw on a great blazer and pretend you have somewhere important to be.

Now go forth and dress well.

Or don’t.

Just don’t say I didn’t warn you xoxo